I see what you are sayign, and agree with points, but not all.
Firstly, and mostly, on the point of socializing.
If they person wants to join based soley on the socialization aspect, then there is a good chance they will not be/ or remain being a heavy list fighter.
It takes away from thier social time
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And we all know, and have seen those people. They are the ones who show up to practice every week, but hardly ever armor up. They always have a "reason" for not doing it either. They stand and talk, and laugh, and bring friends, who stand and talk and laugh. And a grand time is had by all. But while you might have more people at a practice, you still have the same ammount of participants.
And I do not mean to belittle those who actually DO have a reason.
