We decided, as far as possible, to go with stainless steel. It presents the appearance of polished silver but is very durable and easy to maintain. Wood is wrong and a pain to maintain. Silver is too expensive and requires more maintainence than we are likely to be able to give it. Brass and copper, bad. Ceramic is too darn fragile, particularly with small children.
Beaker cups - We found 7,8,10, and 12 oz stainless steel tumblers at local institutional supply stores. These look reasonably like the beaker cups seen in late 14th Century illustrations. They cost between $4-$10 each depending upon the size.
Cups - My wife made the off-hand comment "Looks like they stole a communion chalice" and the brainstorm hit. Church supply companies carry stainless steel chalices! We haven't found a suitable online supplier, so we plan to spend a few hours perusing catalogs at one of the local retailers. Thus far the suitable ones we have found online have been in the $100-$300 price range, but only as part of a 'traveling communion' kit. We're hoping to find something in the $50 price range.
Plate - Institutional supply, again. Platters (wide brim, deep center) come pretty darn close. They are in the $20-$40 range.
Bowls - Institutional supply again. $20-$40 range.
Flagons - Nothing. We haven't found anything that comes close. A few companies sell small pewter replicas/reproductions, but nothing close to the size depicted in period illustrations.
Costrels - Again, nothing. A company in Europe makes a stainless 'pilgrim's flask' but we want some standing costrels. The shape is sufficiently complex that we may end up going with ceramic.
Knives - We aren't worried about this. Plenty of suppliers to choose from.
Spoons - While there are plenty of suppliers, none are making them in stainless. Institutional supply has been a bomb. We probably just going to bite the bullet and pay for silver from a merchant or possibly purchasing from Replacements, Ltd. (a company that sells replacement china and silver).
Salt Cellar - We haven't seen anything we like yet. We are looking for a boat-shaped cellar.
